Determining Child Custody Abuse

One of the most contentious aspects of a divorce is child custody decisions.  Typically, the mother will receive primary custody while the father gets visitation rights.  After the divorce decree is issued, most people presume that everyone lives happily ever after once a divorce is final.

Wrong!  As things go on in many homes that outsiders would be surprised to know about, the same can happen to children in a home where the court has declared they should be during a particular time period. 

What can a parent do when his/her child is facing domestic child abuse or witnessing some form of abuse in the ex-spouse's home?

Parental Child Abuse

Just as abuse can happen when two parents are together, it can happen in the home of one parent.  There may be substance abuse in child custody, verbal abuse in child custody, spousal abuse in child custody, etc.  Abuse may come from a biological parent but might come from a stepparent, domestic partner or boyfriend/girlfriend of the parent.  The parent may be a victim of the abuse or completely clueless of the situation.

Custody Change Due to Child Abuse

The best thing a concerned parent can do is listen to the child and provide a stable home in case that child needs it.  A talk with the other parent is also recommended if the ex-spouses can have a civilized conversation.  If the ex-spouse is a victim or too hostile, the next option is going to the court.

A parent could file paperwork seeking an emergency change in custody or go to the proper authorities.

Child Custody Abuse Legal Help

This article is merely a guide, not a replacement for legal advice.  Consult with a family law attorney in your area if a child you care about is facing an abusive family situation.